Question:
Gold star lesbian. People take such pride in this term. I am not one but I feel like it’s something that I should be, and am ashamed that I am not. Thoughts?
Answer:
Gold Star Lesbian, let’s define what this means before I give you an answer. According to Urban Dictionary, a Gold Star Lesbian is a lesbian that has never slept with a man and categorizes herself as a woman whose preference is womenAi??and only sleeps with women. Now, there are many lesbians who fall under this category, myself included. I haveAi??never had sexAi??with a man,Ai??at least notAi??consensually. But that’s a story for a different day. However, my thoughts on this topic are pretty straight forward: I don’t care if you fucked twenty guys before you figured out that men just weren’t your preference. I don’t give a shit, honestly. If you define yourself as a lesbian then that is what you are. There is absolutely nothing, I repeat, NOTHING, wrong with not beingAi??a “Gold Star Lesbian”. In fact, the term is ridiculous. The amount of people, or the sex of those persons, is irrelevant. Don’t feel ashamed whatsoever. Be confident in who you are and own the fact that you’ve experienced multiple genders. The only person that any of this defining matters toAi??is to you. Be proud.
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The past is in the past. Being a gold-star lesbian isn’t any better than being bi or a lesbian who has slept with a man. Everyone has skeletons, why would you condemn someone for mistakes when mistakes are inevitable?